Monthly Archives: डिसेंबर 2009
My last post is still incomplete and I am not getting time to complete it too. In fact, how can dare to sum up something as giant as Life in a humble blog post. So I am dropping the idea. Let the crap remain in the posts, but I am not gonna think at it again.
I am really out of the blue now, which I was during my last posts. Its like now the picture is getting more and more clear as I am understanding my role in my own life. Sounds complicated? Absolutely it is, and its the same case for me. I still don’t know where the hell I am heading in my life, but earlier I used to be much worried about all the things. Now a days, I really don’t care. I really don’t care where am I heading in my life. I don’t care what others will think about me. I don’t care, if my doings/words are gonna hurt someone. You can say, I have become a careless, brat kid now.
But It feels great. Its like experiencing a different part of me. Its like feeling a new person inside me. Earlier I used to think and then act, so that I should not offend anyone. But now I just do/ say/act whatever I feel. And now I have understood its really very easy to ask for forgiveness than to ask for permission. Now, I really understood the importance of the Phrase ‘”Don’t worry, be happy!!!” Now I really know, that worries are part of life, you cannot run away from them, they are gonna piss you off, no matter what you do. And if you spend most of the time of your day, thinking about your damn worries, you are actually fucking you life. So now my motto is, care a damn about worries,/tensions and just enjoy the moment. Do whatever you feel to do. Say whatever you wanna say. Don’t stay quite, keep on doing. And most importantly, stay Happy. Raj Kumar Hirani was right in a way, when he told us to tell our heart “All izz Well”, when things don’t seem so well. Ofcourse, he was not good enough to give the message strongly, but the point is the same. If u cant laugh at life…with life.and about life..then what’s the point in life?? Life is not a timed test, where we would make a list of shouldas/couldas/wouldas & finish with correct answers and be perfect about it. Rather, its about, not having the perfect answers and still enjoying it as if its the greatest gift u have…becoz it really is!! So I really wish that I should rather get an imperfect life, full of happiness, rather than a perfect life, but always with some future worries…becoz, Perfection is unattainable but happiness is easy. I wish the same for you all folks, Stay Happy!!!
As you’ll grow up, you’ll learn that even the one person that wasn’t supposed to ever let you down, probably will. You’ll have everything planned with enough efforts so that nothing bad will happen for sometime, and probably life will hit you with its full strength to make all your efforts to go in vain. You’ll have your heart broken and you’ll break others’ hearts. You’ll fight with your best friend or maybe even fall in love with them, and you’ll cry because time is flying by. You’ll fall in love with someone, and may, or may not get love in return. You’ll find someone who will mean a hell lot to you, but you’ll know in the end that it was never meant to be and you’ll need to just let go. So take too many pictures, laugh too much, forgive freely, and love like you’ve never been hurt. Life comes with no guarantees, no time outs, no second chances. you just have to live life to the fullest, tell someone what they mean to you and tell someone off, speak out, dance in the pouring rain, hold someone’s hand, comfort a friend, fall asleep watching the sun come up, stay up late, be a flirt, and smile until your face hurts. Don’t be afraid to take chances or fall in love and most of all, live in the moment because every second you spend angry or upset is a second of happiness you can never get back.
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